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如果我们总是觉得我们先采取主动，那就意味着我们输了。说到底，输赢不是我们自己决定的，而是把自己的输赢放在对手身上，输赢全靠别人。
Ifwealwaysfeelthatwetaketheinitiativefirst,itmeansthatwehavelost.Inthefinalanalysis,winningorlosingisnotourowndecision,butweputourownwinningorlosingonouropponents,andwinningorlosingdependsentirelyonothers.
生活中，总有人怕自己不如别人。一旦他们听说周围有人做得比他们好，他们就迫不及待地想立即赶上。他想和别人一样优秀，却找不到可行的办法。所以，一边被“不如别人”的情绪折磨着，一边厌恶着自己现在的处境，难免会日积月累。
Inlife,therearealwayspeoplewhoareafraidthattheyareinferiortoothers.Oncetheyhearthatsomeonearoundthemisdoingbetterthanthem,theycan'twaittocatchupimmediately.Hewantstobeasgoodasothers,buthecan'tfindafeasibleway.Therefore,whilebeingtorturedbytheemotionof"beinginferiortoothers",whilehatingyourpresentsituation,itisinevitablethatitwillaccumulateovertime.
相反，你越是把时间和精力花在自己身上，让自己变得不一样的魅力，对方就会再次被你吸引，然后又开始对你好。
Onthecontrary,themoreyouspendyourtimeandenergyonyourselfandmakeyourselfattractive,theotherpersonwillbeattractedtoyouagain,andthenstarttobenicetoyouagain.
了解之后，以爱情为基础的婚姻会更安心，更稳固
Afterthat,themarriagebasedonlovewillbemoresecureandstable.
对于她，你可以随时主动，给她发信息，主动打招呼，主动找她。
Forher,youcantaketheinitiativeatanytime,sendheramessage,taketheinitiativetosayhello,andtaketheinitiativetofindher.